You are fed up. You’ve had enough. The bullshit, the chaos, the negativity, and everything else. You are done. There is nothing left to hang on to. Whether it be a relationship, a place, a person, a job, or something else. You have come to realize that it’s just not worth it anymore. So what’s next? How do you start over after being in the same position for so damn long? Here are 10 things you MUST do in order to start over in life.
It doesn’t matter if it’s your first attempt to start over in life or if you have had to start over again and again. You have to do every single one of these 10 things if you want to start over again and kick ass at having a fresh start. It sounds so simple but, it’s not as easy as you would like to think. Saying something and actually doing it are two completely different things.
Just remember, do NOT give up. Here are the 10 things you need to do if you think you are ready to start over.Think you're ready to start over? Follow these 10 steps + celebrate. It's time for a fresh start! #FreshStart #StartOver Click To Tweet
Start Over By Doing These 10 Things.
Can you truly accept things for the way they are? Whether you are just looking for a fresh start or your life sucks a big one. You MUST accept the mistakes you made, the damage you have done, the pain you feel. Take responsibility for your actions, your motives, your feelings. Own up to it. It something bad has happened to you, mentally, physically, emotionally, or spiritually – you have to accept that it happened and everything that came along with it.
I know this sounds simple but, let’s get honest. It’s NOT. Many people block things out or hold grudges for a hell of a long time. Possibly, forever. Yet, if you are thinking about having a do-over or want to start over in life then, you know that things can be better than they are.If you can't think of a reason to continue, then it's time to start over. #acceptance #startover Click To Tweet
Women struggle with this one big time. Statistically, women forgive other people rather quickly. The problem we women have is forgiving ourselves. Think about your past and your present. What is going on that you want to start over? Forgive yourself for the mistakes that you have made. They are not failures, they are lessons.
You have to forgive yourself for the bullshit. You may regret doing it. At the time, you may have found a way to justify it but, it’s done. Whatever it was that you did or said, or felt. It’s done. Forgive yourself and then you can move on. Move on and start over.
You have to have the willingness to change and start over. You may say you are ready to have a new life and leave the past behind. But saying something and actually doing it are two completely different things. Humans do not like change. We fear change because we don’t know what will happen. The fear of the unknown, right?
This is all about taking chances, risks, and doing what is best for yourself. If you know that something got to give. You have to start over and you are finding a way to start then, you already have the willingness inside of you to create a better future.
Willpower is a state of mind. It’s about having self- control and restraint. You need to have a certain amount of willpower in everything that you do. Especially when doing something as drastic as creating a new life and being ready to start over. Have the willingness to start over while having the willpower to do it right and control the urge to give up or succumb to your old way of life.
Now things get a bit harder but, have bigger results. You must eliminate all the bullshit. This will most likely be the hardest part when you choose to start over. Letting go of material possessions is not nearly as hard as eliminating the people in your life that you have to let go of in order to do better. This may be a friend or a significant other. Toxic people need to go.
The only thing that might help you out is this. People tend to walk away before they get kicked to the curb. So, if that toxic person has an idea that your intentions are to kick their ass to the curb then, they may disappear from your life before you get a chance to tell them goodbye.
You are halfway there. The next 5 things go hand in hand. They are action steps to implement and actually be able to start over!
Get your shit in order. You have to get your priorities straight so, you have a clear focus on what it is you need to do. Leading us right into number 7.
Focus, focus, focus. Do not let your mind stray from the goal at hand. This is your life. Don’t fuck around.
Obviously, the way things were and are isn’t what you want. Focus on what it is that you DO want.
Plan for success. Failure is not an option. Physically make a plan, write it down, or type it out. Do whatever it is you have to drill it into your head. Do not let anyone stray you from your objective which is to start over. Create a successful life and be a badass woman who is proud of who she’s become.
Take action. Go hard. Do not let anyone tell you that your plan is pointless, you can’t do it. You have overcome so much. There is nothing you can not do. Take action and start over.
You can’t just sit on your couch and expect things to change. Execute your plan. Actually, do the footwork. Hard work pays off. If you want something bad enough, you can and will do it.
When you choose to start over in life it is for one of two reasons. One, you are not happy with your life. Or two, you want more out of life. For me, it was a combination of both. I do know that if you work at changing for the better and put your heart and soul into it, then you will be successful. When you choose to start over in life, it’s no joke. It’s not something that you can do half-assed. This is your life. Your future, hopes, and dreams.
Put It All Together
- Accept that things suck and you need to start over.
- Forgive yourself for letting shit get this bad.
- Be willing to move on and start over.
- Have the willpower to do the right thing and control the urges to fall back to the way things were.
- Eliminate all of the bullshit. This includes people, places, things, and anything else. Anything that could get in your way when you choose to start over in life.
- Get your priorities straight.
- Focus on your goals. Focus on a new beginning and successfully being able to start over.
- Plan for success.
- Take action and begin executing your plan.
- Stick with it. Don’t give up. You will be successful in starting over and kick ass in all you do!
Now, get it to it girl. This is total badassery at it’s finest!